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About Me

Recovering codependent and Survivor from hidden abuse LifeCoach

I'm grateful you came this far to my website and I'd like to share just some small parts of me, Victoria.


  I was born in Burbank, Calif. in the 70s in homes of alot of alcoholism, drug addictions, hidden abuse,sexual abuse and codependents, and without any authentic spiritual practices. I'm not sure if there isn't a family on this earth that has not been affected by any of these or all.

For me, I was 42 years old sitting in my second therapy session and I needed help getting out of this pit of pain,old tools and behaviors that were not longer serving me in my adult relationships and especially my relationships with my children, daily! He introduced me to codependency. I found so many answers with outside help, books and group meetings that it has transformed me beyond my wildest dreams in all my relationships to healthier, happier, loving ones and more importantly with myself, spiritually,mentally and emotionally as well! You may be thinking that this impossible like myself when I started this journey in recovery in codependency and complex trauma but for me personally when I continue to do the work that was and is asked of me today, remain teachable, I have grown to  measures that are breath taking. The most beautiful part is the letting go of control, fear, self doubt and give it to a power greater than myself. That power I call God, and you can start your journey with or without, just start rebuilding your relationships with healthier tools and behaviors. Live a life that feels fulfilled without external things today!


Since 2015, I have attended Southwest Institute of Healing Arts in Tempe,Az. in the Life coaching program and have been guiding and loving  so many clients in recovery where they are from codependency and/or , hidden abuse to healthier relationships in a sacred space they have discovered that we are all not alone, we are love and loved!


Your life is precious and you deserve to be present in your joy everyday! 

Lets capture and embrace it, little by slowly together today : )

I pray for all the codependents still suffering out there and find their way to recovery, freedom and inner peace because it is so so possible !!




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